I saw an anonymous quote the other day that stopped me in my tracks.
It read:

“CHOOSE YOUR LOVE…
                   LOVE YOUR CHOICE…”

After deciding to be with your man as your number one choice in life… why can’t you continue to BE THE GIRLFRIEND…after marriage?? Ask yourself next time you run into a tricky situation… “Would the girlfriend get on her man’s case about this?”

Then, take a deep breath, and decide to work it through in a non-combative way that leaves your man with a good feeling in his heart. You can be assertive and honor your needs by communicating in a loving way. Try it next time you get irritated about something. Remind yourself that “Loving Your Choice” takes practice and “practice makes perfect.”