Here comes the Holidays…and where goes our love??  With all the different holidays upon us with the Festival of Lights, Hanukkah, Christmas; and don’t forget birthdays and anniversaries as well; it can become overwhelming to keep the romance burning brightly! The smart Girlfriend-Wife plans ahead accordingly.  She knows that with just a wink of the eye, all the shopping will be done, the cards and packages sent out, the company and family members are already at the front door and tons of food and goodies are needing to be made.  It’s so easy to let the whirlwind of the holiday pressures just sweep you up into its crazy vortex!  HELP is on the way.  ROMANCE CAN SURVIVE  THE HOLIDAY SEASON! First decide that you are going to make loving your man a priority, no matter how many relatives are coming to town!  Next, set a date with your Boyfriend-Husband before the end of the calendar year that will just be the TWO OF YOU ALONE TOGETHER!  Depending on finances and work commitments; chose a date, a place and a budget that works for you. The important thing is that you do something SPECIAL with just the two of you.  Put a date on the calendar to go to dinner, meet for lunch, enjoy a hotel overnite or even take a hike in a beautiful setting.  As someone once said,
“The best relationship is when you can act like lovers and best friends at the same time…and remember, “Love is friendship that has caught fire.”  –Anonymous